A commenter in response to this post about the woman who questioned the benefits of marriage suggests the woman has Asperger Syndrome’!! Isn’t that so sweet and Christlike?
As if that isn’t bad enough she suggests this woman has never loved before, so its just as well she doesn’t marry so she doesn’t ruin some man’s life. Oh wait, did I say “marry”, sorry I meant just as well she doesn’t enter a financial contract. Seriously, there it is in black and white how godly women see marriage–its a financial contract. She gives sex and babies in return for his money.
How do we know how far in life this woman is anyway? Is there a cut off in life where you can no longer find love? If you don’t find love by 30, is that really it for you? Whatever happened to their favorite refrain of “nothing is impossible with God”?
Then Shelia comes back with her nonreligious response:
You heard that right. Now this poor woman who simply asked about the benefits of marriage is being labeled as basically not being all there. Something is wrong with her mentally or biologically that makes her not want to get married. Even having the nerve to ask such a question brings her biological urges into examination. Clearly if she had been in love before or had a crush she would want to reproduce with the opposite sex.
There is also the assumption this woman isn’t a Christian. Not every Christian is called to marriage, but these women force it down your throat and question you mental and biological state if you don’t want marriage or even if you question it. They also can’t separate out the difference between marriage vs. kids, love, sex. This woman can still have all the so-called “normal” biological drives such as wants kids, wants love, has loved, wants sex, etc. but just doesn’t get how marriage is going to make all those things better. You can still do all those things without marriage. So, to questions her biology because she questions marriage is flat out crazy and typical judgy Christian.
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